--- [ LOS ANGELES ](https://mail.citywatchla.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=category&id=312) # Have Unconventional Relationships Taken Over the Dating Scene in LA? Written by CityWatch on March 07 2026. ![](https://mail.citywatchla.com/images/stories/Mar-2026/019q.jpg) [](https://www.addtoany.com/share) [Comments](#disqus_thread) DATING IN LA - Los Angeles has always operated by its own social calendar. The city runs late, talks fast about therapy, and treats personal reinvention as a baseline expectation rather than something worth remarking on. So when the question comes up about how people in LA are dating now, the honest answer is that a lot of them stopped following a single template a long time ago. What has changed is that the numbers finally caught up to what anyone living in Silver Lake or WeHo could have told you at brunch 3 years ago. Fewer people are getting married, more people are openly renegotiating what a partnership looks like, and the apps designed around traditional coupling are losing ground to platforms that assume monogamy is one option among several. The city did not invent any of this, but it is where these patterns are playing out with the least friction and the most visibility. ## Relationship Choices LA has long attracted people who build their lives on their own terms, and that extends to how they date. Some pursue polyamory, others prefer arrangements with clear expectations, and a growing number look for [Los Angeles sugar daddies](https://www.sugardaddy.com/sugar-daddies/california/los-angeles) or companionship outside conventional pairings. Pew Research Center data from 2023 shows 51% of adults aged 18 to 29 consider open marriages acceptable, which gives some sense of how much attitudes have loosened among younger demographics. The 2024 Singles in America report found that 31% of singles have tried consensual non-monogamy. Meanwhile, the U.S. marriage rate is projected to fall to 5.8 per 1,000 in 2025, according to the Penn Wharton Budget Model, which also projects the share of married Americans will drop to 45.3% by 2026 as cohabitation becomes more common. People in LA are picking from a wider set of relationship formats, and fewer of them feel pressure to default to marriage as the expected outcome. ## What the Younger Demographics Actually Want The generational split here is worth paying attention to. Pew Research Center found that [acceptance of open marriages drops steadily with age](https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/09/14/views-of-divorce-and-open-marriages/): 41% among those 30 to 49, 26% among 50 to 64, and 15% for those 65 and older. That gradient tells you where things are heading. The 2024 Singles in America report adds another layer to this. Half of Millennials surveyed said they are bored with conventional sexual routines, and 64% of Gen Z respondents said they want more adventurous sexual lives. These are not small subsets. They account for the largest share of the active dating population in a city like LA, where the median age skews younger, and people move there precisely because they want room to try things out. None of this means traditional monogamy is gone. Plenty of people in LA want a committed partner and a shared lease. But the assumption that everyone is working toward the same outcome, engagement ring by year 2, house by year 5, has weakened considerably among people under 40. ## Apps Are Losing, and LA Is Building Alternatives The Los Angeles Times has reported on a growing pattern among [younger daters who have lost interest in traditional swipe-based apps](https://time.com/6836033/gen-z-ditching-dating-apps/). LA startups have responded with platforms built around in-person meetups and community-based dating, where people connect through events, groups, or shared spaces rather than through profile photos and algorithmic matching. Feeld is one example of a platform that has gained traction under this model. Originally built for people in open relationships, Feeld saw its revenues increase 26% in 2024, reaching roughly £48.9 million. Its user base has grown 30% year over year since 2022. That kind of growth tells you that the demand for non-traditional dating infrastructure is real, and it is being met by companies that do not treat monogamy as the default setting. In LA specifically, this has translated into a dating culture where people are as likely to meet a partner at a curated dinner series or an intimacy workshop as they are on a phone screen. The social infrastructure around dating is being rebuilt from the ground up in this city, and the people building it are responding to what users actually want rather than what older platforms assumed they should want. ## Polyamory on Television and in Real Life Peacock premiered "Couple to Throuple" in February 2024, a 10-episode series that followed couples inviting a 3rd person into their relationship. Several of the cast members were based in LA. The show was not a documentary, but it did put a particular style of relationship on a mainstream platform in a way that would have been difficult to greenlight even 5 years earlier. Television tends to follow behavior rather than create it. LA had a visible polyamorous community long before any streaming service built a show around it. What the show did was confirm that the audience for this content exists and is large enough to justify a full production run. That matters because it reduces the social cost of talking about these arrangements openly. ## Marriage Still Exists, but the Pressure Around It Has Faded The Penn Wharton Budget Model projection that only 45.3% of Americans will be married by 2026 is a national figure, but LA tracks below national averages on marriage rates and has for years. Cohabitation without marriage is common. So are long-term partnerships where neither person sees a legal contract as necessary for commitment. What has happened in LA is that the menu of acceptable relationship formats has expanded quietly and steadily. People are dating with fewer assumptions about where things need to end up, and the infrastructure around dating, the apps, the social spaces, the cultural permission, has caught up to match that reality. Whether this amounts to unconventional relationships "taking over" depends on your frame of reference. 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